We use other people to satisfy our desires for safety, pleasure, affection, and attention. Normally, we seek romantic relationships with other people in an effort to complete ourselves. These relationships are between subject and object, in which we are the subject and the other person is the object. However, in such shallow relationships, our mind and body eventually becomes desensitized to the other person and we stop feeling the same sense of pleasure from the union, so it comes to an end, and we then try to find someone (or something) else to replace the feeling of completeness. This is how we begin a never-ending cycle of temporary relationships.